Ah Jamie, can we have a "hopefully" option?
I've put No, but only cos I hope to find something I can purchase from there, but I'm only buying a teeny amount of presents this year due to skintdom and I might not!
If I put yes and then don;t, I;ll feel bad for lying!

once he followed me into a pub toilet and said "nice arse"... I duley punche him in the throat and left him for the ambulance to deal with him.

Orright orright, I know its not the "aspirational way" in a zen stylee, but I actually *air punched* a "Yesssss" when I read this.

It is of course a ...

Some abuse I've forgiven. A couple of the people involved I forgive.
The rest, no feckin way in a million years. I don't think not forgiving certain people impedes my healing in any way,I think it gives me a healthy perspective. By acknowledging that certain acts are reprehensible to the nth degree ...

Yes,the community - a community of 2000 yet Jamie?

Feeling so accepted, even when I'm being rubbish.
Brilliant Havoca.