Blog Update - Lay by You

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Blog Update - Lay by You

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A song written by the foster parent of a victim.

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I'll try again another day - its made me ball my eyes out 😭
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Re: Blog Update - Lay by You

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Jamie wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2023 7:15 pm A song written by the foster parent of a victim.

https://www.havoca.org/lay-by-you/
Powerful. I wonder at what point a child who has been abused and had it normalised who then goes on to act out what is normal for them becomes/is classed as a "child abuser" and "accountable" for what they are doing.

I wrote my own poem about that though I was below the age of 5 when doing that to my brother:

viewtopic.php?p=441391&hilit=child+child+abuser#p441391
It's people who want to have sex that are making it happen. It's the people who tell you to "shut up" that are making it happen. It's NOT you. It's NOT your fault. :love4:
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