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by Elliecloud
Wed Feb 01, 2023 4:57 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: RESULTS - Member of the Year 2022 - RESULTS
Replies: 26
Views: 7244

Re: RESULTS - Member of the Year 2022 - RESULTS

Well deserved ((((DIVINE)))) Thank you for always being there! Your hugs are the best! ❤️

Thank you ((((ashridge_mack)))) ((((Stephen)))) and ((((Tez)))) too!

Rest peacefully ((((Sid))))
by Elliecloud
Sat Jan 28, 2023 2:14 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Survey Update
Replies: 14
Views: 5386

Re: Survey Update

Interesting... I would say any type of childhood abuse is damaging. In fact, speaking personally, I may even go so far as to say that the neglect and psychological abuse in my childhood have possibly caused me more anguish than the physical and sexual abuse.
by Elliecloud
Sun Dec 25, 2022 10:37 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Survey Update
Replies: 14
Views: 5386

Re: Survey Update

It's all horribly shocking, but that parents are the main abusers is harrowing 😔
by Elliecloud
Wed Apr 27, 2022 1:49 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Money Raising Ideas
Replies: 83
Views: 19748

Re: Money Raising Ideas

My niece writes poetry, there's one poem in particular that I've shared on Havoca. I would happily ask her if she would be happy to include it in a book!
by Elliecloud
Tue Mar 01, 2022 10:55 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Member of the Year 2021 - Winner
Replies: 29
Views: 9051

Re: Member of the Year 2021 - Winner

Well deserved ((((Bunting))))!! You're a true gem xxxx
by Elliecloud
Tue Feb 08, 2022 8:41 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Money Raising Ideas
Replies: 83
Views: 19748

Re: Money Raising Ideas

There's a computer software package called 'FunderFinder.' I know of it from the charity I used to work with in Scotland. We had a designated computer that people could use, where they could select information directly for their cause, for example, for Havoca, 'child abuse' 'support' 'online forum' ...
by Elliecloud
Tue Dec 28, 2021 3:33 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Blog Update - Forgive and Forget at Christmas
Replies: 4
Views: 2989

Re: Blog Update - Forgive and Forget at Christmas

That's great news Jamie!

Thank you The Cides!!
by Elliecloud
Thu Dec 23, 2021 12:22 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Help Required - how did you find us?
Replies: 28
Views: 9782

Re: Help Required - how did you find us?

I would have done a Google search and found HAVOCA that way. I do recall telling either Victoria or Sarah at Choices Counselling about Havoca pre 2015, while I was on the waiting list. I noticed when I referred again more recently that Havoca is now included as a contact on their help list. I think ...
by Elliecloud
Thu Dec 23, 2021 12:07 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Thank you Ellecloud!
Replies: 9
Views: 3982

Re: Thank you Ellecloud!

Only just seen this! Thank you Jamie and everyone, loved doing it! Xx
by Elliecloud
Sat Dec 18, 2021 11:46 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: What I really love about HAVOCA is.....
Replies: 74
Views: 61902

Re: What I really love about HAVOCA is.....

It's the first place ever that I feel I belong. I can tell my truth, be heard, understood and not judged. I've never met any of you, but a few of you feel like dear, old friends. There is so much support here and everyone is so kind and thoughtful. I don't feel alone anymore, and while I wish I coul...
by Elliecloud
Wed Aug 18, 2021 6:13 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Money Raising Ideas
Replies: 83
Views: 19748

Re: Money Raising Ideas

Sourcing funding is more challenging when you are not for profit, but as you said, becoming a charity does indeed add another layer of admin. You mentioned in 2019, that if everyone gave a monthly donation of £1, things would be good. You could put this out there as a suggestion to members. Or that ...
by Elliecloud
Wed Jun 16, 2021 11:35 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: HAVOCA 20th Anniversary
Replies: 16
Views: 11076

Re: HAVOCA 20th Anniversary

Thank you Havoca from my heart ❣️ My life is better because you exist. I feel supported, I am among people who understand, I have met people who have helped and guided me through some of my worst days. I love the people here who have become familiar to me, my friends, over the past 6 years and I wou...
by Elliecloud
Wed Feb 24, 2021 7:14 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Blog Update - Are Abuse Survivors at a Higher Risk of Developing Diabetes?
Replies: 1
Views: 3808

Re: Blog Update - Are Abuse Survivors at a Higher Risk of Developing Diabetes?

Thanks for sharing Jamie. I'm just learning myself that we are more likely to suffer with autoimmune disorders too!

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