A bit late, just saw this, well-deserved am

Yay Pondbug and SunshineSmile And well done Northern and free_butterfly

Congratulations SunshineSmile. I find all your replies very measured, warm and sensitive.

Welcome Northern, and thank you for stepping up

Great news and very well deserved. Divine is an amazing support on havoca.

I think I see the difference between emotional and psychological abuse. And I think I definitely had both.

I think gaslighting is a type of psychological abuse, because it distorts what you believe to be true.

I think neglect, not stepping up to caregiver duties etc, that's emotional abuse ...

I've noticed a similar thing AM. There have been patches of little to nothing going on over on the physical abuse forum whereas the sexual abuse forum is seemingly never quiet. I realised, where people experienced sexual abuse and physical abuse (and/or emotional/psychological) they tended to "deal ...

I was struck by that too AM. Also that the 4 types of abuse, sexual, physical, emotional and psychological, were fairly equally represented.

It's hard to forgive when the perpetrators lie about what they've done, do not acknowledge the extent of the harm,
others around them also don't acknowledge etc, and as the article describes, continue to cause harm to the survivor in their present day life. I think survivors often feel guilt that ...

Jamie wrote: Mon Dec 12, 2022 1:53 pm In the Shadow of An Abuser
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This is very pertinent for lots of us on here. Some of us are still living in the shadow of it all. It's not that we refuse to move on. We're being held back still.

Well done on getting through the v difficult update Jamie

I might be assuming wrong, but I kind of thought that as we're approaching the end of 2022, maybe the £1000 goal was set because funds were looking to be running short by about that sort of amount by the end of the year ie 31st Dec.

I also noticed you don't have to be a forum member to donate, as ...

Just a quick reply to say, it's quietly comforting to see that the amount is going up rather quickly, already over 12% of goal. I hope it continues at this rate.

As a monthly donor, I don't mind that monthly donations aren't included in the goal, as I can understand that what's being asked for here ...

Thank you for all you do Jamie.

Thank you for everything Jamie