Some survivors prefer not to post publically. This section allows those shy, more cautious members, to request Pen Pals. To request a Pen Pal simply start a new topic and express how you'd like to be contacted; either by PM, email or reply to the post. BE CAUTIOUS ABOUT REVEALING EMAIL ADDRESSES IN POSTS. In most instances PMs should suffice until freindship and trust has been built. Any questions or concerns please contact info@havoca.org